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Yikes! This is all too real! Dog parent here.

If you wore that, your drag name would be Santa LaWhora

don't tempt me...sounds like a... http://www.ourspacer.com/images/graphics/sexy/cherry-poppin-good-time.gif

Huh? I can't hear you, I heard buff, Bora Bora, model and my mind began racing... http://www.zastavki.com/pictures/1440x900/2010/Men_Guy_on_the_beach_024892_.jpg http://coffeetimeromance.com/CoffeeThoughts/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/Black-guy-with-long-dreads.jpg

Oh, @rogerG is going to love this thread & its animated posts! http://hugelolcdn.com/i/64660.gif

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I hear this apparatus is a big seller after the holidays, cruises, and pizza... http://www.coolbuddy.com/jokes/funnypics/peniscope.gif

Even besties have to draw boundaries. I draw mine at lending a cup of sugar or a spoon of honey, but I will be there for you in the recovery room to jiggle the leftover skin & tighten your girdle.

Ok, my friend, you are stuck on SEX. Just bc you choose to believe this forum should be all about dick and escorts, it doesn't make it so. That aspect is fun, but frankly, it gets tedious after a while. My observation is that your heels have dug into "this forum is all about sex." The forum has changed - whether you like it or not. Could you give me the benefit of suspending the sex & race cards in this thread for a second here and think about two other words instead? The words are intent & impact. I'm going to choose to believe that Dakota had the best of intentions by frankly & honestly stating his preference to not be contacted by Black clients. Maybe his intent was to be transparent, save himself & clients awkwardness based on whatever experience, preference, bias he may have. Yes, it could be that Dakota is a racist, but let's not make negative assumptions, and instead focus on the impact of his exclusionary statement: No Black guys please. Man, that statement stings. It evokes so many memories when I've seen women, LGBT, and other minorities be bypassed for services or recognition bc of who they are. Man, that statement hurts bc I've seen white men be shunned and made scapegoats for systematic & institutional racism in America. Man, that statement has negative impact on me & others bc it is a bitter reminder of how uncivil yet negatively PC we've become in our good country. JJK...none of what I said has to do with sex. Unbeknownst to Dakota, his statement awakens pain, shame, anger, fear, grandstanding, and so much more. I'm going to choose to believe what Dakota doesn't realize is the painful impact his statement has on the entire client base - not just on Black clients. His overt statement hurts (in different levels of pain) the very client base he is trying to appeal to. Consciously and subconsciously, the impact of his exclusionary statement will plague the clients and the cool experience Dakota is trying to create. This is not about who you choose to sleep with, this is about the enormous emotional impact language and words have. Let's not undermine that. Now, @Dakota, I don't want you to reconsider your biases or preferences - that's your baggage to deal with. I do hope you reconsider the pain and impact you are (perhaps unknowingly) creating on many of us who would be prospects. Your statement (no black guys please) hurts. I choose to believe that was not your intent, but that's the impact. Give it some thought. Respectfully, -TR

JD, I have a somewhat different perspective. It is very hard for me to trust, and when I am lucky enough to have a close friend, I find it very hard to distance myself or discard them just bc their behavior is "annoying" to me. If their behavior was criminal, dangerous, or something worse, then, yeah, I would probably modify the relationship or end it. However, in the grand scheme of things, if someone is a braggart is that enough to modify the friendship? Before giving up on him, I would take a hard look at myself and ask: can I control my negative reaction to his bragging? Can I stand losing face when he brags to others in front of me? Sometimes, being a close friend really entails embracing someone fully for the good and the bad. I certainly hope my close friends don't give up on me when I annoy them - even if continuously. good luck! -TR

Ok, Moe... I have a boring Friday night planned ahead here in the Big D - with the Dallas Mafia - so hearing you had a good time, even a few indecent comments about it, would really light up my eve. In all seriousness, how did it go?

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I can't pick between the "pick a dick" sausage anchorwoman or the "the milkman saw my tits" purple fur lady! Hysterical !

There is no butch way to act when a cockroach decides to climb up your leg... http://gifstop.com/images/animals/cockroach3.gif

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Fuck this...I'm just gonna say it: Hey, @Dakota, it has to be hard to just sit there and have folks just post opinions about you or your business when you know yourself best. What is going thru your mind? Help us see your side of things.

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It wasn't a beach chair, sweetie... http://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/69/a6/44/69a644dd3a877365ea4e8449917e8d59.jpg

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Damn it, I was about to star flirting with ya I still like ya tho.

I'm hoping this is the season where we see the characters in incubation flourish into kick ass roles. I've loved being patient, but I'm ready for at least 3 characters to rain fire and hell on others.

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To fully make up my mind, I would need to see a guy grinding on a twerker On second thought...I would also like to see a guy twerking on a grinder :D