John Krups

Still no information on Kerry Slate (Nicky Palm Springs). He's the best.

I met Julian and he's a really good guy, his pictures are accurate and he does very well. He's masculine and clean and kind.

Keith30309

I agree 100%. I know Kerry fairly well and you have some great things to say for his benefit.

Kerry - kudos for coming on the forum and offering a calm, reasoned explanation of your perspectives on the issues around no-show's! That takes character and demonstrates interest in maintaining your valuable reputation. I totally get your concerns about physical safety - that's the most important thing in this entire equation. You can't risk that for any amount of money and being particularly leery of anyone involved in drugs is wise. I could never walk up to a hotel room door and knock without knowing what's on the other side - I get it.

 

What I think I hear is that there are accurate reviews of you for no-shows (beyond the instance above with the family emergency) and that (sometimes) you cancel at the last minute if you get a (bad) gut feeling. You're absolutely within your rights to do whatever you feel is necessary. The problem is the image of you that creates... I was stood up by a fairly well-known guy in Houston not long ago who I tried to hire despite some discussion here about him being a flake. I added my no-show experience to the chorus of naysayers and I've seen little further questions from potential-clients about him. In this case it turned into a lose-lose for everybody.

 

In the interest of creating something constructive out of all this I wonder if you can't reduce your lose-lose experiences and have more 'wins'. There's several very sharp, experienced companions on the forum who have shared the steps they take to assure their safety, vet their prospective clients and hone their instincts for spotting when something just isn't right. There's a few threads in Ask an Escort about these things. I suspect you'd prefer to not feel the need to cancel and picking up some of these pros' tips might help that.

 

Best wishes and good luck.