Met him several years ago and had an amazing time. Then maybe two years ago I was finally able to connect again and it was abysmal. Everything that went well the first time was missing the second time.
He seemed distracted, sloppy, and maybe on something. He was in a terrible disaster of a hotel and before I got there kept giving me the most ridiculous directions to his room (no, he didn’t give me a room number but wanted me to meet him in some random area near his room but couldn’t just give clear instructions). The bed was being propped up by some half assed makeshift attempt at a leg which gave way the second we got on the bed. We ended up on the floor and having the most awkward interaction of my life. It lasted maybe 30 min and I was out the door. Dude blocked me immediately afterward.
The first time we met was a massage that took a different turn in a more natural way after awhile. The second time he just wanted to get to business. Meh, even if he didn’t block me like a bitch I’d never do it again.