Not even close. Unless you think being teased is a negative experience. Have you ever been to a strip bar and left unhappily because you didn't get to boink every cute dancer in the room? Not me. I understand the rules going in. Sometimes the homoerotic vibe wrapped in an otherwise vanilla form of entertainment is enough. His rates are far more reasonable than others who charge twice as much and only imply extras without a guarantee. He does not promote or suggest more than a therapeutic experience and delivers something consistent and above that claim. If you want a different experience, hire an escort and get exactly what you want. There's enough variety to please everyone. I signed up for the good tease and a good tease is what I got.