There was a thread about a frequent poster who asked a closeted gay escort out for dinner after their session was over. The escort refused to go out with the client, he said that if seen with him in a public space everybody will know he's gay.
I'm not sure if the effeminate vs. masculine concept applies to that situation.
Once I was having lunch with a local Jewish escort and he introduced me to one of his friends who happened to be in the restaurant as his uncle Shlomo visiting from Miami...
The abusive use of the term "emotional support animal" (including peacocks) must end as others already pointed.
A large dog on the lap???? Gimme a break if you want your dog to travel with you get a seat for him and place him on the window with you in between the animal and other passengers. A muzzle would be a good suggestion too