As much as I agree with your statement after all we've talked about daddy's passing I don't think it's time for Monday morning quaterback or coulda woulda shoulda. Daddy didn't expect to die so relatively young and so sudden, life simply happens and sometimes we're not prepared for the unexpected as others later think we should have been.
The situation was what it was when @Orin @RadioRob and so many others saved the site. They certainly made lemonade with what they faced and we're grateful for their labor!