Oni Graves

Oh, I think I must followed him on some platforms before, he looks quite familiar. Glad to know he is also chill, Imma gonna have to check out his page

TBH I don’t really need my bottom to be in control. It’s just performance anxiety and I easily got knocked out of the moment. The bottom being submissive consistently really helps me stay in the focus. I had like one or two successful encounters in Europe when they just simply enjoyed being my “man wife”or “good girl” for the night, but when I try to search for similar providers after being back I had no luck so far lol. That’s why I thought maybe asking for recommendations might raise the chance. BTW your description was quite on point, that’s really my favorite type.

Oh he is definitely cute

I think you are right man. It has been a bad circle on repeat. My condition and lack of experience made some sessions awkward , the awkward sessions thickened my condition. I do have a decade of longings for a certain type, but maybe just get comfortable with experienced providers can be a good start.

Yeah I think about passion and chemistry works better than size. also the position changes the game too. Personally as a top I don’t really care about the provider’s size, it’s even better if they are caged lol. But if they are much bigger than me it’s visually a lot of pressure……

Cool cool, so just use “power bottom “ as a key word while searching? I’m gonna try it out now. Much appreciated!

Hey, thanks for responding man. Almost lost hope there. Yeah I understand the requests are complex. I definitely have dominate side and my turn-one are the power dynamic, especially if the partner is a mature sub, doesn’t have to be BDSM but I just LOVE that type. But some trauma past and lack of experience made it quite hard to express all that. So it became a dead end, I’m happy to hire a provider that fits my needs to meet the fantasy, but just searching for “sub daddy bottom” never really shows any helpful results. That’s why I decided to seek help and see if anyone had good experience with certain providers before they can refer to me. Thanks again tho.

Oh I forgot to mention, located in LA area

Hey all, new member here, and need some suggestions. My status is kinda awkward tbh, I'm a dom top without enough self-esteem to fill up his ego. Also I'm uncut with a sensitive tip, if you know you know, that can also make things awkward. My type is mature bottoms that really know how to put themselves under their man and guide the top, verbal, lingrie and roleplay are all big plus. So I'm wondering if anyone has experience with submissive daddy providers like that, and where to find their page? Prefer clean but also open-minded about it. Thank you thank you