I’m 67 and have been around these places long enough to remember when things felt a little less rushed and a little more personal. I spent a few evenings recently visiting some of the clubs around Fort Lauderdale / South Florida, and figured I’d share my impressions for anyone my age (or anyone who still enjoys conversation as much as eye candy).
Johnson’s
This one felt familiar in a good way, smaller, quieter, and not as frantic as some of the othrs. The cover was low and the prices were ok. Drinks were reasonably priced, and I didn’t feel pressured to spend more than I wanted. The lineup was limited, and I won’t pretend every guy was my type, but the atmosphere was relaxed enough to sit, watch, and chat without feeling invisible, ignored/ or rushed.
Le Boy
A livelier crowd and definitely younger overall. Some of the guys were friendly and genuinely engaging, others less so, the usual. I found it helped to take my time, talk first, and see who was actually interested in mking a connection... rather than just, selling a package. When that happened, the experience was enjoyable. When it didn’t, it felt very transactional. Not my favorite environment, but I can see the appeal for some.
Boardwalk
This place really depends on the night lol. Earlier in the week felt calmer and more approachable, while weekends were louder, busier, and frankly more exhausting for me (old age?). There’s a wide range of dancers, which is nice, but also a wide range of attitudes. I had better luck going in without expectations and leaving when it stopped being fun.