CoryD

I was there once over 20 years ago, and since then there's been a fire and they've rebuilt. Most activity is around and in the pools, which are great. I went with a straight friend and we slept on sleeping bags outside on a deck near the pools. It was fun. The vibe is very straight, lots of couples together in the pools. Plenty of singles together as friends. I'm sure gay men go there, but they keep quiet. I vaguely remember they encourage people to avoid sexual behavior in public, even though it's clothing optional. I walked into the sauna in the evening, and a guy gave me a hand job. watching very carefully in case anyone else came in. He left right away after finishing the job. My guess is the sexual tension plays out discretely. There are walking trails on the property and who knows what happens away from the pools. I can't remember if I got a massage there or at another hot springs resort. The therapists might be good, but I very strongly doubt there are erotic services on offer. YMMV. Good luck.

I recently had a sensuous massage with Androphilic. He's a very kind, attractive man. His space is comfortable. He posts sexy photos on his profile and then lets me know that he is a masseur... I think this is common, but it feels like teasing. This was my first sensuous massage, and I know I need to learn how all of this works. I've had lots of really good therapeutic massages. His therapeutic skills missed the mark overall for me. The sensual component was limited but nice in the moment. I'm not sure if I'd go back. I'll try another of my favorites in SF.