I'm thinking it probably depends on how far in advance you are reaching out to them.
I also travel a bit for work, and often check out what is on offer in the city I am heading to. I think a weeks notice is good - I message by text 'hey saw your profile, I will be in town next week, a bit about me - I am (insert height/weight/age/sexual position). do you have any time between Wednesday-Friday that works for you, and can you let me know your rates?"
I have a lot of success with this formula. I think if you reach out with 'hello how are you?" then they reply and find out you are not looking until next month, they move on to people who are require more immediate attention. It's best to put it all out there upfront. If I don't get a reply for a day or two, I can move on to my next preference.
The thing is RentMen is not USA based so they actually don't have to follow the ruling anyway. The ruling only applies to porn sites based in the USA. If a porn site in Europe doesn't wanna screen it's USA visitors there's nothing we can do about it.
