Just to give an update he has been threatening if I don't contact him he will show up at my house, my parents house, my work place, or my spouse's parents house. He has also taken photos and videos of me some of them without my consent have threatened to distribute them. His threats are always veiled "bring in new viewers to what I do"
I have filled a restraining order yesterday. I do not think he has been served yet.
He has threatened to get a lawyer to get everything back he has given me and report me to the police.