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I used one masseur (since retired) repeatedly who always used the same music loop.  I noticed over time little pauses that told him when to switch body parts and when to flip.  Actually pretty clever.
He had it set to allow 10 minutes at the end for genital massage.  I often came quickly and he would use the remaining time to visit muscles that he thought could use a little attention.

There used to be a provider near me that, after massaging down my glutes,  would slide the entire side of his hand across my asshole and up through my crack.  It was so much more sensuous to me than having my asshole fingered.

I second, or third the feedback here.  He charges top massage rates, then spends much of the massage teasing and upselling you.  four time during the massage he suggested I could go a little further for more money.  I respect providers rights to set their prices and boundries. But I clearly told him the first time that I was good for this first massage at this rate and see how it went and maybe future massages we could negotiate something else.  I felt I was very clear, but he kept upselling anyway.  I have not returned.

I agree with the commentators that if the message feels personal versus a generic "sale" notification it is more welcome.  I have one provider who has a busy schedule and he will occasionally text me when he has an opening at my preferred mid day time.  But this only occurs because after three or so massages he asked me if I would like to get occasional texts when he know he is open on a Thursday.    This works because he asked, I know we work well together and he only texts when the message makes sense for me personally.   

I think to do this wou your need to keep good records on your clients. How you you keep track of your clients preferances?  do you keep a customer profile database?  It makes sense that a good masseur would do this.