My partner from my last relationship, which lasted 22 years until his death held no physical attraction to me initially. I was introduced to him, a nice guy, but really not my type. He pursued me, and I gave in for a date, the rest is history.... Getting to know him and the person he was became the attraction for me, and he was a "beautiful" person, treated me with kindness and respect, and we had a sexual compatibility I thought I would never find.... So the moral of the story guys is if the man doesn't make you "drop your panties" when you meet, hang in there... you might be surprised what will develop when you get to know him and get past the "looks" thing?