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The "song and dance" in Japan is very different. Guys are generally shyer, but the open layout (bunk beds on one side of the room, mattresses on the floor on the other) works this way: A guy lies on a mattress and pretends to be asleep. Sometimes completely naked, sometimes with a bathrobe. You come closer and start touching him. He might take a peek at you. If he's not into you or not into what you're doing, he will turn away or brush your hand away. Otherwise, he will let you continue. Might deserve a separate post but as a cumslut, I really enjoyed the blowjob bars. It is what it says on the tin. You enter, there's a small bar and a bartender. Pay the fee (roughly $10), take a glowstick bracelet. They're color coded: red (I wanna suck dick), blue (I want my dick sucked), multicolor (either/both). There may be either a door or a curtain beyond the bar, which leads to a maze of cubicles and some larger rooms. Complete nudity as well as fucking are expressly forbidden, but you can binge on dick and cum.

I've explicitly informed the provider about the things I want to happen and he has acknowledged them. I'm the type to keep just the head in my mouth as the guy is shooting though, so I can enjoy the load for a bit before swallowing 😋 We are indeed polar opposites. Although with hookups, cumming is kind of expected, so I haven't really considered it before. First time hiring so I'm still learning the ropes and will definitely clarify anything I'm not sure about with the provider instead of assuming. Gotta say though, of the ~800 (ballpark estimate) dicks I've enjoyed so far, there were only about a dozen where I didn't get to eat the load for various reasons. Swallowing cum is the goal of having sex for me 💦

Thank you for the responses! I will make it clear with the provider that his cum is the centerpiece of the transaction. It's going to be a weekend treat so I'm hoping to get a big one!

First post. I'm about to start my hiring era. I'm wondering, say for example I have an agreement with a provider for an hour of his time. Is it a foregone conclusion or expectation (in his perspective) that he's cumming for me at the end of that hour? Or do I have to specifically ask for it during negotiation? I've heard of guys who take multiple clients a day so I'm wondering if they're cumming for each client. I have to ask because getting the cum is always the goal for me when having sex, and if I need to make it clear with the provider from the get-go.