I think the one who’s confused here is you. First of all, you can’t compare the service of a waiter or a barber to that of a spa. If you’re only going to the spa for a massage, then sure, a $20 tip might be appropriate. But let’s be honest — if you’re going expecting something else and want to touch the massage therapist for $20, come on, don’t play dumb. I don’t see you trying to touch your barber or a restaurant server, because you’d get beaten up right away. The comparison you’re making is stupid. They’re not there to satisfy anyone. Download a dating app — there, you don’t have to tip
