I learned this lesson recently the hard way. Made an date in advance and paid a significant amount. Thought had a great connection and was ghosted a few days before the meeting. Never again will do advance payment.
Recently I booked in advance and made a significant deposit to show I'm serious on meeting. Talked alot before the date and was told on the day of couldn't meet. Was told will send my money back but I have my doubts now.
Exactly what I do, I schedule ahead and request for him to cum. I am very lucky now with most massages from my masseur I get a mouth full of delicious cum 😋