Travpilo

I attempted contact a week ago via RM Messenger. No response. I'm guessing he didn't like something about my profile. Hope you have better luck!

These responses are great. Let's me know it's common to respect your provider. I recently had someone contact me about a regular I see and I wrote a review about. I kept it general and described his overall general "great guy" qualities. He then asked the "...one more question" about 3 times. Each time trying to get specifics out of me. I ended up stating.. " have you set up a meeting? If so, just ask him direct! He's a friendly guy that will let you know if he's comfortable with your asks.." I realized this wasn't the best way to go, as he ended up telling me when and where they were meeting. I felt horrible, as I wasn't trying to inquire about the meeting, just to help him realize how easy it is to communicate. To my next surprise, he started telling me how much he liked my profile. I cut off the discussion politely, but quickly. Definitely a learning experience for me.

That sucks for providers for sure. I hate hearing it because it can cause issues for clients as well.. as in casting doubt on intentions with a new provider. As such, I have a full profile on my RM account, and always text outside of the platform after initially touching base. Unfortunately, my job is my biggest issue... I travel all over the country.. but every once in a while, I'm hit by the issues with the aviation system (I fly for a major airline), and as such, sometimes I have to cancel. It's only happened 2 times in quite a few years, but it sucks. I always explain why (and feel like a flake.. I feel horrible for it) and have so far had good responses. As such, I get somewhat gun-shy about setting something up too far in advance when I'm on the road. I guess I'll just deal with it as I can. When I was new to this, I was VERY nervous about the whole thing. Letting a stranger into my life for a sudden level of intimacy/sex was both exciting and frightening. I still never flaked, though.. just never booked! Hoping it gets better for all providers!