This person was one of my early clients while I was working with RM. I had just finished a bartending shift and was planning to head home when he contacted me, asking if I could come to New York City to spend time with him for his birthday. I agreed and quickly checked the train schedule, calculating how much time I had to get home, shower, pack, and make it to the last train. In my rush, I forgot to ask for a deposit.
Right before boarding the train, I remembered and asked him for it. We went back and forth, and he said,” I don’t normally give deposits because I’ve been burned before”. I told him that had nothing to do with me, and eventually, we settled on $100. He agreed to send it when I reached Trenton, the first stop on the way to NYC.
When I arrived in Trenton, I called, no answer. I called again and still no answer. Eventually, he called me back and only sent $50. I asked about the remaining $50, and we went back and forth again. Then he started getting aggressive, irritated, and hostile toward me. But I hadnt broken any agreement, he had. The way he was speaking to me on the phone made other people around me take notice, and the whole situation started feeling extremely unsettling. At that point, I decided I no longer wanted to meet him. Then he started threatening me.
I didnt want his deposit money at this point. I thought by refunding it, would be the end of it. Which I think pissed him off even more because he assumed i would just take it. But I wasnt going to engage any further. Now the issue was, I was now stranded in NYC because I had taken the last train up and had no way to get home immediately. I had to wait at Penn Station for five hours until the first train back, which cost me $120. Annoying, but fine, I just wanted to move on.
That should have been the end of it. But the next day, I started receiving nonstop calls and texts from random numbers. When I answered, it was him. I hung up and blocked him, but he kept calling from different numbers. Because I had my number listed on RM for work, I assumed some of the calls were potential clients only to realize it was him every time. My block list grew ridiculously long, yet he still found ways to contact me.
At that point, I reached out to other providers in NYC, asking if they had ever dealt with him. Every single one of them had and they all described the exact same behavior, dating as far back as 2016. Even now, many are still being harassed by him. He has an endless supply of phone numbers and continues to call and message despite being blocked repeatedly. My Mr. Number app is completely flooded with red from all his blocked numbers. Reports have already been filed against him by countless people before me, but he still does this every day, all day.
I even changed my number multiple times, and yet he still manages to find me. And again I have never met this person. I refunded his deposit because I wanted nothing to do with him, thinking that would end things. But here I am, a year and a half later, still dealing with his harassment.
After speaking with many other providers, its clear that he is the common denominator in all these situations. The problem isn’t us its him. Im sharing this as a warning because if you engage with this person, you will likely experience the same relentless harassment. He is mentally unstable, and avoiding him altogether is the only way to protect yourself.
and if you directly message me, I can provide you with more information and that I cannot post here due to violations that I don’t want to occur by posting things that I’m not allowed to post on public forums. The reason for this posting wasn’t me to gossip me to spread any rumors. This is to make people aware of a client who is mentally unwell, who will make your life a living nightmare for no reason and all I’m trying to do is the right thing to do and let people be aware of it.
