I’ve hired 2 guys from IG. And I totally get where you’re coming from as far as needing to be discreet as well as not wanting to violate IG’s terms of service. I think many insta guys, especially guys with large followings, may not respond out of fear that you’re trying to trick them into get their account suspended or damaging their reputation. The 2 guys I hired have extremely large IG followings. What worked for me is I did similar to what @ThroatCummer wrote except I didn’t include the part about spending the night (because that may be a little too blatant) but instead I invited them for dinner. Inviting them for dinner got my foot in the door without being too obvious or violating IG’s rules. Then during dinner I let them know I was interested in more and brought some cash as a good faith deposit. It worked both times. Hope this helps.
