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Thank you all for your replies and the links to other discussions.  Very informative, I appreciate it.

Not sure why the original post was not formatted correctly…I did not change any settings when posting.  I am using dark mode myself.

Okay I’m going to ask a stupid question.  I’ve had erotic massages before but I didn’t really know how to behave.  What is the usual encounter like for most people and how erotic (and mutual) do you get?

The few I’ve had, I was naked face down, felt mostly like a normal massage.  During one of them when face up, one i asked the masseur to actually remove his underwear and I fondled a little.  The face up part was pretty…direct to the task.  

What’s considered fair game during one of these?  How much fondling, any oral, etc?  How kinky or mutual do people get?  I don’t know what to really expect or what to ask for.  Obviously sometimes you need to discuss beforehand but I just want to know others’ experiences (and sometimes when i do ask i start getting upselled to full escort services/prices).  Being face down for a pretty average massage then a quickie HJ doesn’t cover the cost I guess.  
 

ps. I posted this in an older thread and figure I’d post as a new topic.  Just discovered these forums…I love this site!

Okay I’m going to ask a stupid question.  I’ve had erotic massages before but I didn’t really know how to behave.  What is the usual encounter like for most people and how erotic (and mutual) do you get?

The few I’ve had, I was naked face down, felt mostly like a normal massage.  During one of them when face up, one i asked the masseur to actually remove his underwear and I fondled a little.  The face up part was pretty…direct to the task.  

What’s considered fair game during one of these?  How much fondling, any oral, etc?  How kinky or mutual do people get?  I don’t know what to really expect or what to ask for.  Obviously sometimes you need to discuss beforehand but I just want to know others’ experiences (and sometimes when i do ask i start getting upselled to full escort services/prices).  Being face down for a pretty average massage then a quickie HJ doesn’t cover the cost I guess.