Hungbig9

I don’t even know what you’re getting at with this post. I’m asking for recommendations in boston that would come highly recommended - it isn’t just the checklist of physical attributes

Browsing the forums, I’ve seen jonramsey mentioned. Are there any great hires in boston? I’m vers, so pretty open depending. Ideally, hung tops or vers or muscle bottoms that can take huge dicks are what I really go for. Thanks in advance!

He didn’t block you specifically, he took his ad down. Honestly, you aren’t missing much. He was a great hire if you caught him early in his escorting career, but his outlook has changed drastically since then. Even if he put up an ad again, I would strongly recommend you consider finding someone else. My last communication with him was that he no longer offered full service (penetration) at all, but his rate certainly did not account for that.

Those pics are definitely the guy I met off of Grindr several times - and I’d bet are also the same guy posting on Rmen. As of 4 hours ago, he is also definitely in nyc. He does seem to travel a lot though. Id say if he’s your cup of tea, ask for a FT or snap to confirm it’s him.

An update on this provider. I met with him and he was one of my best experiences. Very good looking with a dick and ass to match and very good sexual energy. He is pricey though.

I can’t speak to hiring him since I’ve only fucked him from Grindr - and I know he occasionally advertises as vers so I also can’t speak to that. But I can vouch for his bottoming skills and being a very hot guy and great fuck.

It’s why I think he is selective. He was probably one of my top 5 experiences, and I hire often and am very picky. I think he’s honest enough that if he’s interested and says he will meet, you’ll have a good time.

I am not wishing bad on him. I’m wishing life teaches him swift hard lessons to make him a better person. The whole gay perspective of ‘be kind’ is infantile. Yes, be a good person; no, that doesn’t mean you get to do what you want without consequence.

I think he is selective about it - and has a high rate. But I can vouch. You can PM for details.

It isn’t being a shitty person. When there are 100 recounts of the same story, it isn’t speculation anymore. It’s just how he behaves. People like that need life lessons to change behavior. And in the gay community it’s especially true/pervasive since we like to give pretty people an exceptionally unbalanced lens of which to operate. It isn’t reality, and you are essentially advocating to allow bad behavior. You might have a slight bias in that regard.

It’s mainly my commentary about him. And I always hope people like him learn that lesson the extremely hard way - because it’s what they deserve. Life is a two way street.

Sure. It may be supplemental, it is definitely not the primary reason he’s there. I have a big dick and run into the same bottoms he’s fucked. And the wording of his ad is for fun not work. But sure, he probably gets some residual offers.

Sorry, but there’s a fine line. Even if you are fully booked, the way you handle interactions is what maintains your longevity - both in your examples and escorting. For people who are spending the money on overnights, something should click in your head that they deserve a higher consideration. And as hot as he is, someone with that much of a disconnect to decent behavior is a major turn off. i see him all over Grindr in nyc these days, so I actually think a lot of it is that he’s single and doing a lot more casual fucking. Which is fine, but makes it even more obnoxious that his interactions with clients is so flippant.

I’m traveling to boston over the next week and looking for any exceptional recommendations. Nothing specific other than that they are hot, fit, and most importantly they perform well/have good sexual chemistry. thanks in advance!

Pictures are very accurate. Depends what you want out of the interaction, but he is a hot guy. You can dm for more info

Just to add context for other readers. I met up with him several times years ago. He is one of the few escorts I have met who are extremely hot and exceed expectations in person, has great sexual energy, and delivers. That said, he is extremely flaky. I messaged him last week since he had told me he stopped escorting during the pandemic. When j saw the ad, I was eager to reconnect. Initial communications were slow even though he clearly had my number saved from our past meetings. Eventually we tentatively booked for dates he said he was available, and then simply stopped responding. tldr, he’s a very hot guy and knows how to fuck but is incredibly unreliable and high maintenance. Two very distinct reasons I hire rather than hop on Grindr (I need to plan and don’t like to waste time). Personally, I won’t be giving it another chance.

I’m surprised this is even a question. I only topped for the longest time since I have a huge dick - and if the bottom didn’t douche, I wasn’t fucking. Even with complete pro power bottom types there were still accidents - and that was with them saying they douched. Being vers nowadays, there’s no way in hell id even attempt bottoming unless I was super clean.

I knew a lot of guys at G, but that one doesn’t ring a bell. Very nice sentiment though. Wishing you the best.

I started bottoming recently and seem to attract very hung guys (maybe since I’m also very hung.) I’m definitely a much better top than bottom, and I need practice lol. Can anyone recommend a relatively large - but not ridiculous - and very high quality dildo. Price doesn’t matter much. Thanks for any recommendations!

I saw him in December and he’s still in good shape. With a dick like that, are you really meeting him for the body? Maybe it’s just me. He’s handsome, super chill, has a huge dick and performs very well if you’re into oral and fucking. But yes, he doesn’t kiss - so that may be the only real consideration.

I have run into these pics a lot on Grindr in nyc. So part of me wonders how legit it is. Hopefully someone can confirm, otherwise I have tentative plans to meet with him in his nyc trip.

Yes, I don’t count it necessarily as fem anymore, it’s worse than that. It basically tells me they’re going to be someone with an activist outlook looking to signal that fact by painting their nails. It’s an automatic no for me.

Sorry, but there’s a whole lot more to it than that; particularly in the porn and escorting industry. OF has created a surplus of availability to porn and sex, so why does there never seem to be a saturation point? Lots of reasons, but primarily because gay culture engages in an endless want and consumption of ‘new and pretty’ that creates a turnstyle effect of performers; it’s never enough, and will never be enough. Which means supply and demand goes out the window. When it comes to escorts, some of which now pull from the same pool of OF performers, they are making more money there now than ever before. They think they’re celebrities, and their worth is grossly overvalued. It’s why you see random people land on these sites starting with ‘$500’ without a single review. They speak to their OF friends, they feel they’re in the same league, and feel they can charge a similar price. The trend will continue, despite supply being ever increasing and more available, with hotter guys and more options, until OF gets a reality check.

Ultra flakey. Responded quickly as I was approaching a trip to chicago. Said he wanted to meet, and then disappeared over the course of 5 days abs several attempts to reach out to him.

Thanks for adding the link - I did forget initially since im new to the site 😜