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  1. I couldn't find anything on here about this. 

    I've always masturbated lying prone using a pillow to rub against. I'm 49 now. I've only seen a few articles about it, most negative. So I asked my family doctor about it. He said as long as I wasn't having any urinary problems that it wasn't an issue. Any opinions? 

    I should add that not sexually active and won't be. 

  2. On 7/12/2021 at 9:45 AM, BuffaloKyle said:

    I have seen this happen before. To have just lost a huge championship and be upset and then be given your second place award can be a little salt on the wound to some. I feel about this with tennis majors as well. I don't know why they make the runner up stay out there and get a second place award and have to watch the winner celebrate. You can tell sometimes they just wanna get the heck out.

    It's called being an adult, accepting reality, being a good loser, etc. You stand there, be happy for your competition, and if you can't do that, don't compete. 

  3. So stop playing. That'll solve the problem. Until she realizes most people do get asked the same questions at their job every day. Celebrities get no sympathy from me. At least they have choices available to them normal people don't. If she worked at Home Depot and got asked the same questions every day, she wouldn't have the same choice to quit as she does now after making $55 million. Sorry, no sympathy for her having to live life as a celebrity when that is what she chose. 

  4. I have the greatest respect for sex workers, some of the nicest, balanced, wise and worldly people are sex workers. Yes there are some at the other end of the scale who are doing it to fund drug habits and making an existence but .....

     

    As far as throwing shade at people who judge sex workers, I am throwing the same shade at those who judge others in a negative way.

     

    It is that universal issue about why is anyone concerned about what others are doing, if it does not impact you.

     

    Its that universal question that is so common in cultures based on Christianity that society as a whole will interfere with others rights to live, whereas I subscribe to the philosophy of if you don‘t want/approve/like don’t take part.

     

    Do not want a same sex marriage - do not have one

    Do not believe in abortion - do not have one

    Do not believe is sex workers - do not hire one

     

    Etc etc

     

    I respect peoples beliefs and ways of living, until they try to force their point of view or lifestyle upon me.

     

    I don't want to hijack this thread anymore than I have, so maybe we can continue our discussion on another thread later. I'll create one later.

  5. PayPal is something I am happy to use.

     

    I guess the legality comes down to how the provider sets up their account, do they describe themselves as a masseur or a sex worker, or a consultant etc.

     

    sex work is the worlds oldest profession, not sure why people still have moral issues with it in 2021

     

    That's diversity for you. Diversity means we don't all have to feel the same way or think the same way about things and be shamed or told we are wrong. Sex work being a moral issue is different from it being a legal issue.

     

    And I think by you throwing shade at people who might have moral issues with sex work, you just prove how far we haven't come. Isn't that the very issue of diversity?

  6. If 3 or more are true, then it’s a scam.

    1. Photos look like a 22 year old European fitness model
    2. Traveling through your area
    3. The profile is new and/or the reviewer profile is new
    4. Into PNP
    5. Dodgy profile text such as “You wouldn’t be here if you didn’t already agree that you have a craving to fill, a curiosity to explore, a fire to spark. So..DO IT—pamper your soul.”

     

    I'm out of touch. What is PNP?

  7. guru you are correct. its if i KNOW or not. If i see a hot hot guy that i have had my eye on for some time and he pops up in my city and its a one time thing, then i really dont care to know. i like having a regular since i get a feel for the character of the person as much as the hotness of his body. You can read between the lines real quick if he has a girlfriend or not.

     

    i remember seeing the uber hot ZK. you guys will know who i am talking about. hired him. great body nice guy once when i was in chicago. after that i found out his name and IG account. Married and i believe with a baby on the way. WTF! he or his handler hit me up saying he was going to be in my city. hell would have to freeze before i saw him again. i'm gonna be all over that hotness hearing a baby crying for his momma in my head? HE may be fine with his decision and its consequences. I am not. just how i roll.

     

    In an odd way, knowing he has a family to support would almost make me want to hire him more. If I knew that was the case and didn't hire him because of that, it would feel to me that I'm, in a fucked up way, taking food out of his baby's mouth.

  8. I hate admit it, but $4000. It was 7 years ago. I contacted a well known escort/cam guy in Las Vegas to come to Ohio for a week. He wanted half up front, which wasn't an issue. My dad was diagnosed with kidney cancer and had to have his kidney out that week. Needless to say, he declined to reschedule saying I was a flake. I explained the $4k was not a deposit. I was willing to compromise and split it. It went bad quickly. I never got any of it back.

  9. Hired a guy who said he smoked occasionally and that it wouldn't be an issue. Big mistake. He smoked outside the hotel right before we went to bed. I'm in the bathroom brushing my teeth and he's already in bed. No brushing or mouthwash. All night I could smell his nasty breath. Never again.

  10. Not really on topic, unless you consider paying a "date" a set amount for his/her "time". Romancing someone with gifts, meals out, etc, isn't solicitation, but money for sex is. There are other situations where wealthy "marks" are strung along by con artists pretending to be in love with them. That's more fraud than solicitation. I think the clearest answer to the OP's question is this: stating that it's money for time only is a nice attempt, but ultimately won't make any difference if the law really pursues a case. The likelihood of that happening is fairly slim, but that's a matter of probability of legal action being taken and not of some clear cut legal defense.

     

    What I mean is this .... there are a lot of people that marry just for money. Yes, it has all the legalities of marriage, but mainly comes down to long term prostitution.

    Example: I guarantee my step mother wouldn't have married my dad if he wasn't a wealthy widower with no child care requirements. Not in a million years. And every month, he paid her credit card bill for 25 years until he'd had enough of the farce. Now he's living with me. Guess who got the house HE paid for? And is paying alimony? Don't tell me she wasn't a gold digger. But if I pay a guy to stay in my hotel room, that's prostitution. Lol.

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