I feel the biggest issue for failure is the pure laziness of gay men to go more than 3 blocks down the road for sex. A rural county some 50-100 miles from vegas? Hah!
I've seen straight men fly across the country and even around the world for a pussy. I've had gay men when I was at my absolute physical best in my early 30's, living in chicago say "well your 20 minutes from my place in the city. That's a little too far for me. I think I'll pass". Geez!
For me I'd get the heeby jeebies picking from a line up of hot poor souls like they were cattle going to slaughter at a sex house. Not to mention thinking of how many other were slobbering all over them that day and passing to them god knows what.
Now something along the line of Stella's in nyc years ago... count me in! Looking at gorgeous guys sitting along the outer walls waiting to get spoken to. Bring the hot stud to the bar. Talk to him. Buy him a drink and play pool before setting up a date? Perfection. I'm afraid the internet has all but ruined that from ever happening again.
