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Stood me up last time.

Isn’t it always a private conversation?

It is if I hire them.

I wasn’t aware anyone was judging you.

What they do on their own time is their business.

anyone know if he’s still seeing people?

Maybe he was more into you than he was me.

No it was a hiring arrangement. When I contacted him on Grindr his first reply was “I’m an escort.” It was a 100% hiring situation.

No I didn’t. Chatted with him on Grindr and he said he was into the scene I proposed (going together to steamworks). I texted him a few days later and he said he wasn’t interested in that scene. I said I was confused and he more or less said that was his right. I said of course but the reason I was confused was he seemed so interested on grindr (he said “sure I go to SW all the time.”) and sent him a screen shot of our convo just to be sure it was his and not a fake profile. “I have a right to change my mind” he said. I said of course and moved on.

A RM who I often see who does porn for TIM told me one shoot was canceled because they had a lot of cancellations by actors. I asked why do actors cancel and he said a lot of porn actors get nervous before a shoot. Just anxiety having to perform like that before the camera over and over.

Yikes

You can’t be serious.

Ridiculous. He shouldn’t or needn’t be embarrassed. Have dinner with whomever you want and to hell with what anyone thinks.

Ken doll?

What a twisted view you have. Let’s go back to reality. ...

Sorry but what is it about U = U that you can’t seem to understand.

Gadfly yes indeed and I don’t want to minimize it. Just when things get a bit far reaching I can’t restrain myself.

Agreed. The whole thing is a paid fantasy anyway. Like going to the theater. People act like it’s a “real” relationship. People will reply “but it IS real because it’s two people!” Yes but in the end it’s a “real” pretend relationship. Nothing truly real is going on if you have to pay them to do it.

In general I’m inclined to talk things out but I’m not sure I could get past the “I mean look at you, and look at me“ comment.

Bump

I’ve never heard of the McKenzie scale but you probably mean the Kinsey scale. It’s not a percent (like 60/40) but rather an ordinal scale of 0 to 6. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale

“Gentleman caller” ??

That’s 80 in porn star years. Hahaha. Jk

Lol isn’t jeff Stryker like 80 years old by now? Haha

It’s spelled molto bene.