Someone I talk to on Twitter mentioned non-sw meet & greets. Interested men chip in for a hotel room and hang around and hook up.
Is this a common thing? If so, I need some info (experiences, protocols, etc), please.
Any tips on how to hit on someone? I have never hit on a guy in person, so I need some tips on what to look for, where to go (not talking about a bar), etc? What works for you in a non-bar scene?
I actually met up with him in January 2022. He was nice enough, but he seemed stoned and maybe YMMV. His cock and body were perfect but I would not repeat. I was probably looking for something different than what he offered.
Face is important, because I like intimacy (kissing, etc). He doesn’t have to be gorgeous but I have to be attracted to him.
I generally gravitate towards built guys but a nice face and a dad bod works for me too.
Personality will also play a role too. If he’s nice that scores a million points with me.
My fantasy is meeting an older guy at a hotel bar while I’m on a business trip. I can tell he’s interested and we talk for a bit. He puts his hand on my leg and I know it’s time to go to his room. There we begin to kiss and he teaches me how to make love to a man. He breeds me as he kisses me and I fall asleep in his arms.
Is it possible to find a sensual connection/arrangement with no strings attached? I tried Grindr but most seemed interested in meeting right now. I’ve tried Twitter but no luck.
Maybe I’m old school but I need a mental connection first (I’m not talking weeks or months). I’m 51, on the DL. Not looking for a cum and go exactly. But nice lunch time interludes when we can.
Am I living in a fantasy world when it comes to what I’m looking for?
I have been checking out Rent Men for my upcoming visit to NYC (lower Manhattan). I was looking for personal recommendations based off of member experiences.
I have only seen two providers in the past (my only two experiences with men).
This is what I am looking for to help for my search:
Must be romantic/kisser/cuddler/passionate/lots of body contact (but can bring an edge when requested)
Top or bottom/versatile
Age: younger (20s- early 30s) for bottoms; versatile or tops (30s-late 50s)
Body type is defined to muscular (but not too bulky)
Cock size average to large. Cut or uncut. Consistency with being hard a definite plus.
Must love oral (receive and give). Doesn’t mind giving instruction
Someone who can be gentle and passionate enough for my ‘first time’
Some hair to hairy (but well manicured). For bottoms no hair is ok
Race isn’t a big deal though I gravitate towards Caucasian/Mediterranean/Latino/Middle Eastern
Non-smoker
Good conversation (can talk about fantasies or anything else)