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  1. https://rent.men/TyMandM
     

    I’m sure I’ve seen his photo somewhere, maybe as massage profile, or other listing. He looks familiar, and I don’t know why. An image search I did didn’t bring up anything I saw that might hint at copied or stolen photos.

    Has any worked with him, and supposedly his boyfriend? 

    To me, the listing feels both enticing, and strangely blank. I’m hoping that’s a newbie mistake, or being overly cautious. Idk.

    Thoughts?

  2. 14 minutes ago, Lazarus said:

    I don’t understand why he is texting for 5 or 6 times a day. Stringing you along perhaps? 

    True. That seems maybe excessive for a provider. 5-6 times a day, for how many days now? Is that supposed to continue till you meet in person? Are you dating? That's a serious question, because unless it's a very elaborate session of time together that's being constructed and discussed... what are you talking about? While it's conceivable to become friends outside of the provider/client relationship, that takes time. 

    How long was he talking about his money problems before you offered? How often/emphatically did he bring it up? How personal are the topics of conversation? 

    Serious question to reflect on: how emotionally invested are you getting, and is that reciprocated? I've also set up session with providers far in advance before traveling to an area, though they were long established with solid reputations. I say that because, with that provider, all communication was almost explicitly regarding our time together and details regarding that. Is that the case with you currently?

  3. For me, anything that you pay him IS part of his "bill", and might be considered a deposit/ down payment. Considered still part of the agreed total, only delivered partially in advance. 

    To me, three weeks in advance seems quite far out, especially for someone who is new to that field without much of a reputation, reviews to check, a history as a provider, or someone who you haven't actually worked with before. 

    5 minutes ago, jeezifonly said:

    Many things can happen in three weeks time, including things that could prevent either or both of you from meeting (weather? health? Emergencies with family/pets?)

    Agreed, a lot can happen in that time. 

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