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PetetKsfo

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  1. I inow! I just realized it and updated it. Sorry abouy that!
  2. I’m note sure if proper of me to self-promote, but since no one has responded, I will. I split my time between SF and Provincetown. If I am in Provincetown while you are there, I hope you will check me out. (PeterKsfo on rentmasseur). Otherwise, there are a number of spas that offer quality massage but only a small handful of us who work on our own. When I am not in town, I refer peiple to Lenny @massagebylenny. Peter.
  3. I visited well-space in Union Square last week and had a tour from the woman who manages the space. She was quite nice and the rooms look great. i am wondering if any providers on here have used the space, or if anyone has gone for an appointment with a provider who uses the space. Since there are several rooms on the 4the floor where they rent space, I am wondering about the feel when you are in the space. Does it feel private enough? Can you hear other providers and clients in nearby rooms? Thus might they hear you?
  4. Greetings- Though I am a masseur myself, I love going to check out other masseurs and spas in different cities. I just moved back to San Francisco, and wondering if anyone has any experience visiting "Always Tan and Skin and Body" in San Francisco. Does anyone have any recommendations of the different masseurs who work there? Thanks, Peter
  5. I have a couple of regular clients who are in their 70s. I once had a client in his 80s. I rarely have a client under 30.
  6. I eat a high fiber diet, and also take psyllium husk on a regular basis. This helps me to get ready pretty quickly for clients.
  7. I was in in a contest to be a model on a non-profit/HIV fundraising calendar some 20 years ago. I didn't get on the calendar that year, (I was first runner up) but after the contest, a guy came over to me and gave me his business card, saying that he liked my look and appearance onstage, and asked me if I might be interested in filming gay porn. Around the same time, I also attended a weekend workshop with BodyElectric and loved learning about giving men a sacred erotic experience. While filming porn is a good entry into escorting, I liked the idea of offering a combined therapeutic massage and sensual/erotic experience. I enrolled in a full-time massage school program to learn the technical skills of massage, and continued to take other male erotic workshops and training wherever I could. I love what I do and the connection that I make with my clients. Interestingly, I competed again, and got a spot on this year's calendar, coming back full circle.
  8. I too had been looking for this similar type of arrangement in Boston. I am sometimes there staying with my ex. We are good friends, but I don't have clients at his place. I generally post my ad for outcalls only, but it would be great to be able to find a short-term space to be able to use if a client does not have a place and does not want to get a hotel room. Thanks
  9. Has anyone read the book or seen the movie about Scottie Bowers? He is the gas station attendent turned escort from the 1040s who provided services himself and also connected other escorts to Hollywood starts. He divulged their stores when he was in his 90s and his former clients long deceased. I am actually sorry that I saw the film, as I don't think it is my business who he had as clients. I would not divulge anyone's story no matter how much longer after the fact.
  10. I usually go to bed with nothing on and wake up with a hard on
  11. NIce outline of his head....
  12. Though I love and agree with Kevin's reply, I would say that in many ways I am the same person. I love what I do and that is part of my personality. Of course though it includes a great degree of showmanship,. In the case of an appointment that involves accompanying a client to dinner or a show, I think there is more of an opportunity to see a provider's more authentic self.
  13. I have had clients bring up topics (particularly political) with a different perspective than mine. They even assumed (correctly) that I would have an oppositing position. I tried to find some common ground and assured them that I respected their opinions, then quickly moving the conversation to something else.
  14. My job for the time that we are together is to simply focus all of my attention and energy on my client, and to do my best to be in tune with him. When I see that a client is timid or shy or uncertain, I reassure him that I won't do anything that he doesn't want, and ask him to let me know what works and what does not. Communication and consent are key. I neither want to do soemthing that makes a client uncomfortable, nor do I want a client to leave wishing that I had done more.
  15. Greetings guys - I am a masseur on RentMasseur, mostly in the Northeast, though generally not in NYC. I ask a very reasonable rate, and would never increase my price in the middle of a session nor ask for a gratuity, but hope that clients will take their enjoyment of our time together into consideration at the end if they wish. My experience is that a very small number of clients tip to the level that Frank suggests. (Frank, I would be delighted to have you as a client.) Most offer 20 - 40 above rate, though some don't offer any gratuity. I am fine with that and don't begrudge. One of my instructors in massage school used a really nice tag line: "Gratuity is never expected but always greatly appreciated."
  16. I completely agree that each person and even each situation is different. Sometimes if I am bottoming I may not stay hard but certainly enjoying it and putting all of my sexual energy into my butt. But sometimes I will stay rock hard, particularly if I know I am with a client who wants to flip back and forth from topping to bottoming. I love to go with whatever the situation presents.
  17. I find that the fake profiles have some type of discrepancy between the city where they post and where they actually are. If you use the desktop or mobile site (not the app) it will show the city that the person lists as their location and also their number of miles away from you. I think there is the same concern whether you are a client looking for provider or provider looking for a client. When someone contacts me on A4A, my first question is to ask where they are located and also to say that I am a provider looking for clients. If he says that he is in a differnt city than he has posted I just block him. Even if not a fake, but the person is thousands of miles away, they may be a time waster. If the person is in my city, and the conversaion goes like typical client introductory questions, then I continue with the conversation. If they are farther away but look legitimate, I ask if they are planning a visit to my area. I do agree with other posters here regarding concern for sending money in advance. I have actaully gotten a good number of greawt clients from A4A.
  18. I put in a large 4'x6' shower room with two separate shower heads at my house in Hyannis, and always offer my massage clients a shower after the massage if they would like, Often the massage session continues in the shower where I offer a body scrub.
  19. I bought a new one about a year ago from Master Massage Equipment. It has a weight limit of 1000 lbs. I generally get on top of my clients on the table, and it supports us both very well. I think you'd be quite happy with it. Someone else here on the forum recommended it to me Peter
  20. Thanks very much for this! I usually go to the different events like International Mr. Leather in Chicago and Mid-Atlantic Leather weekend in DC. I post my ad to see clients while there, but it is also nice to have some socal 'off the clock' time to get to meet with other providers and clients. Peter
  21. Well, let me know if you are short a man on the team, and I'd be happy to pinch hit.
  22. Bump - Does anyone have recommendations on hotels in San Francisco that might be good to use for client visits? Thanks
  23. I am interested in learning more about the DC event - or are there others too? I live in Provincetow. I loved attending this past weekend in PS, and would be delighted to attend another similar type gathering in DC. Regards Peter
  24. What an amazing beginning of the weekend. Thank you David for throwing such a great party I loved meeting everyone and had some great conversations. The memorial was very moving - reaffirming why we do what we do. I am looking forward to the dinner tomorrow and party on Sunday. Much Love to all, Peter
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