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That seems quite fair to me.

Well, not only straight providers don't kiss. My clients usually don't ask for kissing. But that's because they figure out from my profile.

Well, someone that has an erection to have sex with another man can't be straight. But this is just my opinion.

Would you rather hire a bi, gay or straight provider? I ask because a lot of clients find the idea of having sex with a straight or bi man more exciting. Most of my clients usually assume I'm straight. Do you think identifying as bi, gay or straight makes a different when trying to find potential clients?

You already learnt my experience. I talked about it recently. This is what is making think cheap client are not healthy. Why would you deny a client the shower after he traveled hours to see you? Other escorts would have asked for a uber. But I agreed anyways. He took advantage.

I would charge 1400 for a 8 hour overnight.

He is the exception. I wouldn't do it for 250 honestly. I did it once and had to travel. The client was cheap and didn't allow me to take a shower after I traveled 2 hours to see him across the Hudson. Cheapest clients tend to be the worst.

300 not in NYC anymore.

It's too informal.

Sooo damn rude. A lot of us are educated. I graduated with a decent GPA myself. Many just escort as a side job for extra income or because they simply like to travel and think is good money where you can take several breaks.

They should be deposits for people that ask to see nudes "o see what "they will pay for".

Deposits are needed. I talk from my experience. I already had a few bad ones where the client blocks after I travel for them. A lot of the times they just want to take advantage of us to collect nudes. Other times they just jerk at our replies because they see us as a fantasy. It's really bothersome. Now I understand why some providers have limited interactions with everyone that texts them. I'm always too nice. 29 out of 30 interactions I have is people playing games.

But cancelling twice in a row when you are just visiting? Hmmmm

Is it okay if the escort asks for a deposit after a client cancels hours in advance? How do feel about it? I'm genuinely curious.

I've done 500 a couple of times for 2 hours. But that’s outside NYC. In New York City nobody has hired for so long except for one guy (I charged him 550 for 2 hours). We didn't do anal. He was very nice and paid for my ubers. Do you think 500 is too little in NYC? My friend charges 700. I thought the point was to encourage people to hire you for longer.

350 in the city since I'm a newbie with only one review in my profile. I don't consider that expensive. I've done 300 a few times but regretted it. I did 200 for 30 minutes one time but no anal involved. I only do travels. I'm not into into cheap customers honestly. If someone thinks 350-400 for a escort in New York City is a lot then hiring is not their thing. I hate when certain clients like to act entitled as if they have the right to tell others what's their value is. Unless the escort is scamming people no one has that right. If you think someone is expensive just move on and hire someone else. It's their bodies and minds at the end of the day.

In New York City? Ummm That used to be the standard before the pandemic. It's been almost five years since 2019. Plus don't forget the inflation. I think 300 for an hour should be the standard for cities like Dallas, Atlanta, Houston, Tampa, etc. What about 2 hours?

I mean for a regular escort (not a porn star nor anything like it). People will say those that are "hotter" will be more expensive. But the thing is that what is hot for me may not be for others. In other words, if someone is looking for a beefy not as lean mature men is because such type is what the hiring person considers a 10. I don't think 300 or 350 should be the standard price here in NYC anymore. That's not a decent amount of money for someone who is in the business here. Hiring escorts should be a luxury in my honest opinion.

And it hurts even more trying to do doggy style!!

Update: I keep practicing with my XL dildo and I need to take 2 hours to relax before I reach climax!! Emulating sex hurts unless I'm about to cum.

Can someone explain?

Why? Can you give details? I want to know...

It's a replica of Jason Vario's cock. Supposedly it feels like the real thing. I bought it for 80 dollars a couple of years ago.

But sometimes I also crave something in my butthole and when I start using the dildo is just pain and not what I was expenting. I know I know. OMG.

Good to know! I just don't think about anything when I put the big toy in my hole! Sometimes at the very end I watch a movie of a hot top I like. But that's all about.